Healthier habits overcome blog overwhelm
After all of the social media webinars, summits, ebooks and white papers I’ve experienced, you’d think I’d have no problem getting my own blog off the ground. I know better. I know it takes time. I’ve helped others do it. I do yoga. I should be able to breathe through this blogging thing and gracefully accept that it will unfold as it should.
But, I couldn’t get past trying to figure out what success will look like. What ebooks will I write, what online course will I teach, what products will I sell, what is my call to action, who is my ideal reader, how can I help them?
Consumed in self-doubt, a challenge and two guides appeared: ProBlogger, Darren Rowse’s 31 Days to a Better Blog Challenge led by Lisbeth Tanz and Michelle Shaeffer
What do the wise prescribe as a cure for chaos? Go back to basics. Time-tested practices will cultivate habits that help us emerge healthier, stronger and wiser. Darren’s guide is basically a master list of all the things every blogger should at least try. It’s not a list of must-do’s, it’s more a collection of suggestions. The intention is not to do what he does, it’s for you to see what works for you.
I had bought the book months ago, but that wasn’t enough for me. I needed the guides and the group. I saw bloggers of all levels struggling with something – technical aspects, coming up with ideas for articles, consistency, clarity, commenting on other blogs… everyone had a different issue.
Lis and Michelle established a safe, supportive comraderie by actively participating themselves. They visited our blogs, left helpful comments and encouraged us to do the same. Everyone received a different lesson. This happened to be the one that stuck with me:
Getting into the routine of reaching out to other bloggers made it less about me and more about encouraging them.
Again, I knew this…it’s the essence of social media for goodness sake. But I hadn’t been practicing it consistently. It’s now a habit. One I’ll keep because I thoroughly enjoyed encouraging other bloggers. I still have an overwhelming list of things I want to do with my blog, but I now have some healthier habits and a much stronger mindset.
Rather than focusing on a specific outcome, I’m going to focus on balance. I’ll spend as much time reaching out as I do writing and I’ll encourage businesses to do the same.
I’m looking forward to watching it unfold. How do you balance the two?
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